First about Janece. We do have a number of areas of commonality. We have visited a number of similar areas (cities and sites), we both lost our spouses way too early – age wise and we both have moral and religious values that are very close. She is a very nice lady who is still going through some of feelings about her deceased husband that I went through for the first year after my wife past unexpectedly. That is not a bad thing but must be faced in order to move on! She is not ready to move past a friendly relationship at this time and I am not sure right now I am either.